One of my favourite quotation is; “Nothing is complete thus nothing is exempt from criticism,” said by James Luther Adams.
No one is complete (Of course, people who wear RAYMOND they are complete. That’s what Raymond says in the advertisement.) We are poor with critics and we do not prefer criticism in personal. I suggest criticism in person, so we can find out a room for improvement. Remember, only critics can make us best. In fact, they are investing resources for our improvement. Listen your critics patiently and review all the suggestions in solitude. Pass resolutions and decide course of action for improvement.
One of my participants asked his wife for 5 improvement suggestions. (He also asked his wife to be frank and honest.) I believe that your Wife can quote you the best point as she has watched you very closely for years.
Wife has given him one suggestion; “You should stop shaking your legs in public as it is a bad manner.”
Husband said, “YES.” to that suggestion. (In fact, husband was thinking that he was relaxing by that posture.) He had never thought of that. This can be a perception of his behaviour in the eyes of his woman.
Husband immediately improves his attitude.
Be a change.