The greatest gift that you can give to other people is the attitude of “unconditional positive strokes.” That means, you offer them which they have never expected from you. (Of course it should be positive.) This is an unorganized and unplanned stroke for them as they have never expected from your end. You reward them with a gift which is not expected from your side. (Initial reaction can be negative as you have different image.)
This is only possible if you have loved them totally. I mean total acceptance of personality and relationship.
I came across experiences, where mother made comments like: “My Son is excellent in studies but very poor in sleeping and eating. I came across reactions of wives for their husbands. “He is really nice but he never turns up in time.” These is a partly acceptance. It never creates excellent relationship and you are hardly able to eat fruits of healthy relationship.
Accepting without limitations and loving completely is the essence of relationship in the year 2009.
These are really very difficult for a human being as it is a natural behaviour from most of us but leaders are always willing to change themselves. I think every moment; focus of relationship is to make it stronger and to add more happiness in it.
Your role is to make it valuable and charming with rich emotional bank balance.
Have an unconditional relationship.