Yesterday, I was interviewed by daily “DNA- BHASKAR”.
News reporter asked me: Sir, How many lives you have changed?
I said: None.
Reporter asked: What?
You have said that you had trained millions of people and other side you are informing us that you have changed NO LIFE.
I said: YES.
This is really contradictory. I am not able to understand, reporter said.
Change in lives is made by the people themselves. No one else and nothing else can do it. I am coaching them but they are responsible. I create an environment and after my influence people take decisions to change themselves.
I had observed that people Listen, Understand, Analyze, and Rethink, get Motivated and plan to change. Even in some cases they made temporary changes. But what about ever lasting change?
I suggest below three points formula.
A) I MUST CHANGE MY SELF WITH PERMANANT EFFECTS.
B) I BELIEVE I CAN CHANGE IT.
C) I HAVE POWER WITHIN TO CHANGE MYSELF. (No external motivation required).
I am responsible for my change and I must follow my decisions by within.
Reporter was now agreeing. He also appreciates the core beliefs for change. He silently recorded the hidden truth of training and development.
About author – http://www.drshaileshthaker.co.in
Dr. Thaker is the world renowned management thinker and motivational speaker on organisational behaviour and development. He is the CLO of Knowledge inc. highly reputed training firm always helps organisations to achieve international benchmark. Dr. Thaker as a management guru always on demand as a keynote speaker , business coach and training guru for the management and training conferences.
Dr. Thaker has benefited 17 countries by 1300 workshops and motivates millions of professionals to achieve professional and personal goals. He has rich experiecce of 20 years and conducted nearly 11085 hours of training across the globe.He is PH.D in Cognitive thinking ( india) and International Training Fellow ( USA ).